Do you know where and how many Bank Accounts your Father or
Husband is having? What are the Bank account numbers? Where and how many Bank
locker’s does the family have and that what are the contents in there? What is
Locker A/c no. and Secret code or Password of that locker? Where is father or
husband putting hard earned money? What all investments are held, and by whom?
Are those bank A/c’s single or jointly held or nominated? What is monthly
family expense?
In Short does a women within the family know
where, assets, investments, liabilities, expenses etc are and how they are
held? Is anything written on paper or somewhere?Does anybody know about them ??
THESE ARE QUESTIONS ESPECIALLY ASKED BY ME TO WOMEN WITHIN MY EXTENDED FAMILY WHO HAVE ENROLLED FOR FINANCIAL CONSULTANCY, AND TODAY I AM RAISING THESE QUESTIONS AND GUIDELINE's TO ALL YOU READERS AS
WELL since TODAY IS “INTERNATIONAL WOMEN's DAY” ( I hope male friends have not forgotten this, please wish
your wife, mummy, sister, aunty, daughter, friends and relatives as well - TODAY
IS 8TH MARCH ). This article is a tribute to today’s modern, multi-talented
women- WHO IS A HOMEMAKER AS WELL AS DOES WORK AT OFFICE AND TAKES CARE OF ENTIRE
FAMILY ALSO.
This is nothing to change the system, but is in conjunction
with one of my previous article on “FINANCES and SMOOTHER MARRIED LIFE” ( Click here to read this- http://bit.ly/FincsnSmothrMriedLife), where
also I have written about personal traits and handling family finances.
Please read carefully below listed REQUESTS especially for Women's to be
followed, irrespective of what is your personal financial trait and who is
currently handling finances-
SINGLE WOMEN-
( Currently you may be free from having financial commitments
towards family’s needs and expenses, so you can start sowing seeds for a money
tree )
- -:) Please start investing money (and not only
save), by whatever amount you can for future-ground rule says save at least 20%
of what you are earning, irrespective of your age or the income.
- -:) May be you can take calculated risks, and can
invest where growth is offered
- -:) Sit with family when family budget is prepared
and
-
-:) Let the
family have it’s budget, but you can work on your own budget and can have occasional
trips and shoppings within the budget perview.
- -:) Keep yourself informed of Basic finances and
also of Family Finances, make a schedule and discuss family finances on some
regular intervals
- -:) Know where all family documents are kept and
know all of them, what is what
- -:) Know what is family income and expenses and what
is a family plan all about, and be in sync with the family.
MARRIED WOMEN-
( So your responsibilities are there, depending upon years
of marriage, family size, family financial goals, etc. at the same time earning
or income is also there from different sources, i.e.business or salary or
investments etc. )
- -:) Prepare goals list, which are shared goals and
individual goals ( it will give vision ) and keep track of it ( it will help
you be on track to achieve those goals ). Women’s please enlist your personal
goals when a financial plan is being prepared alongwith family’s financial
goals
- -:) Maintain a separate savings account apart from
joint account
- -:) Very Important, keep all family documents including
investments, property, bank accounts, loan statements etc at a known place, and
keep track of the same as well
- -:) Know well family liabilities as well
- -:) Also keep records of all and know ,if all is
jointly held, singly held or a nomination is done or not
- -:) Track money flows
- -:) I always feel that women in family should also
actively participate when a meeting is held with Financial Consultant, because
goals and vision is always of the family and not only male or few people
- -:) Please also know where all medical papers are
kept, especially related to mediclaim policies and know it’s procedures in case
of emergencies. ( biggest problem, when a male in the family has any medical
emergencies, the female has to handle immediately with the hospital
authorities, and so all related documents and procedures should be known to
female as well )
- -:) Please take care of your credit card payments
and passwords and also regularly track and maintain your individual credit
history as well
- -:) Also contribute in whatever way the family needs
you, in income generation or expense reduction, which will only happen once you
know family finances
SINGLE, BUT DIVORCED or WIDOWED WOMEN-
( Recoup from the set backs, and start afresh, you have to
stand tall by yourself and start investing for future for you and may be rest of the
family. May be you have time and / or some past investments in hand)
- -:) Check all bank accounts, collect all investment
records, all assets papers, all liabilities papers ( you may get it at once
from financial plan and /or financial planner and / or will, as the case may be
), and update and complete procedures of up-dation wherever necessary. Put claims
wherever it has to be put
- -:) Update records as well wherever investments are
to be continued, as to joint holding and / or nominations and best update your
Financial Plan and / or Financial Consultant and / or WILL
- -:) See that all legal as well as financial
procedures are completed and you are to date with records as per your wish and
need
- -:) Start making investments as per your goals and
vision
- -:) Start planning for retirement
RETIRED WOMEN-
( So you are retired,
in your golden years and with or without your immediate family members,
probably left with some investments and assets )
- -:) Again collate all and keep record of all
- -:) Keep all documents at proper easily accessible
place and to date
- -:) Keep all bank records updated and use ECS
facility to it’s utmost
- -:) Keep all passwords and PINs safe
- -:) Evaluate your needs and resources at regular
intervals with financial planner / Financial Consultant
- -:) Of course enjoy golden years, have world tours
in sync with your finances
- -:) Prepare a WILL, a Power of Attorney etc as the
case may be, as per requirement
- -:) Please be aware that International as well as
Indian studies show that women’s have higher life expectancy then men and so
needs and wants will be there for longer then there male family members or partner
- -:) Plan for more than financial aspects of life
VERY COMMON, BUT VERY MUCH IN THING AND FEW OF THE BIGGEST
PROBLEMS IN TODAY’s WOMEN’S LIFE IS THAT –( it's the closed for knowing finances approach, that put's women's into trouble in most cases rather then money)
· * In today’s internet and technology world
everything is on passwords and pins and that they are not even shared with
spouses or immediate family members,so please know and share them or put them somewhere
· * Moreover Know taxes for women’s on each aspect
of money and assets and investments transfer
· * Be to date and involved in family finances
· * Know what and where risks are in investments and
do not shy away from taking risks. Women’s generally tend to invest in safer
avenues, which outlasts their needs and may give negative return’s and hence may not suffice there family or personal needs and goals
· * Preparing Family Budget is very important activity,
be part of it when financial planner is noting it down
· * Do not undervalue yourself in job arena, just
because you are women, remember it’s your Professinalism and Commitment towards
work that counts and not the gender.
· * Take expert advice, but don’t trust blindly
* Help Family in daily chores of Banking and Finances, like filling and submitting cheques to banks, or paying of dues or paying bills , or paying Financial Advisor etc.and also help maintain budgets and records
* Know legal aspects of finances and money, at least basics of Hindu Succession Act 2005, Womens's Empowerment Act, Maternity Benefits, Equal Rights Act, Special Marriages Act 1954( for inter-caste marriages if registered under this), The Indian Succession Act 1925, The Minimum Wages Act , The Muslim Personal Law (Shariat) Application Act 1937, (incase of Muslims), The Christain's Marriage Act 1872 (incase of Christain marriage), The Foreign Marriage Act 1969 (incase Foreign Marriage is applicable), The Indian Divorce Act 1969, The Equal Remunaration Act 1976, etc. A basic knowledge of this will empower today's women more.
* Raise your voice and concerns and be heard
WISH YOU ALL, ESPECIALLY women's, HAPPY WOMEN's DAY and A VERY SUCCESSFUL LIFE AHEAD
I Sincerely hope that
you women's will accept my wishes with this knowledge sharing gift, one of the
best of me. (:-))
( THIS WAS SPECIALLY PUBLISHED ON 8TH MARCH,2014, ON INTERNATIONAL WOMEN's DAY AND DEDICATED TO WOMEN's, BUT IT WON'T MEAN THAT MALE's SHOULD NOT READ THIS OR SHOULD NOT KNOW THIS AND HENCE,I REQUEST ALL MALE FRIEND'S OF MINE TO ALSO READ AS EVEN SOME WOMEN's MAY NOT ACT UPON THIS SO IT WOULD BE MALES DUTY TO HELP THEIR FEMALE PARTNER OR FAMILY MEMBER TO KEEP THEM INFORMED ABOUT THEIR FAMILY FINANCES AND ABOVE TOPIC CONTENTS,WHICH IS MORE THEN MONEY AND INVESTMENTS )
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